Bagi duit kat mak, berkat

Assalamualaikum guys..

Today, adalah sedikit nasihat yang I nak kongsi dgn my readers.. Just a friendly advice & tak ada maksud lain.

I hope, kalau dpt gaji tu dont forget to spend something for your parents. Tak dapat bagi banyak, sikit pun takpe. But to me, if we earn more, we need to give them more. Apa guna kalau gaji beribu2 tapi bagi dkt Mak sikit je? Berkat ke gaji yang kita terima tu. Parents kita dah tua, bukan kuat lagi nak bekerja. Allah lebih syg kan kite if we always berbakti pada parents especially our moms. If we are able to support our parents walaupun setakat 200 or 300 bucks monthly, bukan ke dpt ringan kan beban mereka, am I right? :-) lagi pun, if u guys r already working right now, this is the time to repay back jasa- jasa our parents.

Bagi duit dkt mak tu, BERKAT namanya. When I was still in school, my brothers always reminded me about this, they all pesan kalau Tasha dh kerja nanti kena bagi mama walaupun gaji Tasha sikit. Masa tu I felt so heavy hearted nk bg mama sbb gaji I pun masa kerja as waitress dulu cuma RM600 je, ye lah masa tu tunggu result SPM & I was very young n that was the salary range utk lepasan sekolah. Mula2 kasi mama RM100 rasa beratnya beban, sbb I got a lot of things that I wanna buy for myself. Tapi slowly, month by month I teruskan je bagi mama duit sejurus dapat gaji dan Alhamdulillah, I rasa rezeki I murah bila I x lupa mama. And up to this moment, I mampu nk bg mama lebih dari dulu, berkat dari gaji yang I kongsi sikit dengan mama. Allah tu kan maha adil...

Semua tu lah berkat duit kasi pada mak. Allah sgt sygkan hambaNya yg berbuat baik pada mak. Remember, before her, you were never existed in this world. Sungguh besar jasa parents kita, tapi bila kita dah berkerjaya, kenapa x dpt bg duit kt mak...

I got 1 story ni, dulu I kenal a girl... Skrg entah mana pergi dia.. She was a very bright mahasiswi and sejurus lepas habis belajar, she got accepted at 1 of the biggest company in Malaysia, Exxon Mobil. Sbb masa tu pointer dia mmg tinggi melangit, and mmg majikan tu dtg Universiti utk interview all the graduates for job opportunities. And fortunately for her, she got in as 1 of their executive customer service representative.

Sape x kenal company tu dkt Malaysia ni, it's 1 of the Malaysia's leading company in oil & gas. And of course, remuneration packages yg diaorang offer mmg terbaik. My former friend ni she got offered RM4000++ by the company. Imagine just after graduated, she straight away dpt kerja ni, and guess how much dia bg mak dia every month? RM100 je.. And sometimes 200 camtu. sedangkan gaji dia cecah 4k & she was still single at that time. The rest of the money are spent for herself. And everyday in the car she would babble to me about things at home, about how hard it was for her to give the money to her mom.. Dia cakap dia rasa macam "kenapa lah aku kena bagi org tua ni duit??"  MashaAllah! Jangan lah kita jadi hamba duit. Sampai bila2 pun duit takkan pernah cukup kalau kita merungut.

And believe it or not, ramai kat luar sana yg serupa mcm my former friend ni... I pun x faham kenapa gaji besar x dpt bg mak lebih sikit... I yg gaji ala2 paras tengkuk ni pun dpt bg my mom lebih dari tu. sometimes I wonder, x syg mak ke? ;-( I speak highly of my mom & i never thought there are people out there yg x syg mak setinggi mana I love my mom.. :-(

Of course kite kene dahulu kan our commitments. Our car instalment, our credit cards, our loans, mcm2 nk kene bayar, but then dari duit gaji tu tarik sikit for our parents. Dan bagi lah amount yang bersesuaian dgn gaji kita. Kalau gaji 4K bg mak 100 atau 200 tu logik kalau ada anak, ada suami , ada rumahtangga, tapi jangan tipu diri sendiri, if mostly suami yg tanggung & ada banyak baki lebih, bagi2 lah kt parents tu lebih sikit.. Bagi, jgn x bagi... Allah x cakap yang ke-3 kita kene syg tu adalah diri kita... Allah ckp yg ke-3 kita kene syg adalah mak.. So beri keutamaan pada mak... Without ur parents, u cant even have a job and cant even earn anything right now, so ingat from where u came from..

So girls and guys out there yg happen to read my post ni, pls remember ur parents and help them financially even if they r financially stable. Kalau ur parents dh terlalu kaya sgt, bring them outside and treat them for dinner, buy them presents and pamper them with anything that they like. InshaAllah 1 day Allah akan reward lebih dari what u manage to give to ur parents. Allah kan maha adil? ;-)

Jangan tanya kenapa aku kena bagi parents duit, sedangkan parents aku x pernah bantu aku langsung dari aku kecik? If you girls and guys are 100% muslim & Islam, you will know the answer to your own question. InshaAllah...